ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is characterized by symptoms of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. It can significantly affect a child’s academic performance, school adjustment, social life, friendships, and family relationships. Having a child with ADHD may mean facing more challenges than expected for their age.
First of all, it is very important to accept that the child has ADHD and to understand what this condition means. Children with ADHD may sometimes be able to focus their attention, but they cannot do so consistently or as required. They have difficulty controlling their behavior and impulses. They may be overly active, struggle to listen, and experience problems with planning and organization.
It should be understood that most of these difficulties are not done intentionally by the child. Assuming that the child behaves this way on purpose may lead to anger within the family and negatively affect the child.
Children with ADHD are often exposed to constant negative feedback. Over time, this can reduce their self-confidence and negatively affect their motivation.
For this reason, it is very important to avoid constant negative feedback and criticism. Focusing not only on what the child cannot do but also on what they can do, appreciating their effort, and reinforcing positive behaviors will improve their self-confidence and motivation.
To reduce difficulties in planning and help develop this skill, plan their day and week together and, as much as possible, fill their schedule with structured activities.
To improve compliance with rules, avoid setting excessive rules. Rules should be clear and straightforward. When speaking with your child, make sure they are listening, maintain eye contact, and avoid indirect or figurative expressions. Maintain a calm and consistent attitude.
Be aware that these difficulties may not improve in a short time, and continue your approach with patience and consistency.
Dr Mehmet Çolak, SpecialistChild and Adolescent Psychiatrist