What Is Peer Bullying, and How Can Children Cope?

What Is Peer Bullying, and How Can Children Cope?

Peer bullying is defined as a child being repeatedly, intentionally, and in a context of power imbalance hurt, excluded, or intimidated by another child.

Bullying can be physical, verbal, social, or digital.

Types of Peer Bullying

  • Physical: Pushing, hitting, taking belongings
  • Verbal: Mocking, insulting, name-calling
  • Social: Exclusion, spreading rumors, isolating from friendships
  • Cyberbullying: Harmful messages or malicious posts via social media

The effects of bullying are not limited to school life; it can leave lasting impacts on a child’s self-esteem, self-concept, and academic performance.

How Can Children Deal with Bullying?

  • Tell a trusted adult: teacher, school counselor, or parent
  • Do not stay alone: stay with a group
  • Set a clear and brief boundary: “I don’t want you to do this”
  • In cyberbullying cases, take screenshots and report it
  • Share emotions: maintain open communication at home
  • Seek professional help if fear and anxiety are severe

Peer bullying is not something that “children will outgrow”; if not identified early, it can cause deep psychological harm.

Dr Mehmet Çolak, Specialist
Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist
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